There is no denying the fact that Chinedu Okoli , the popular Nigerian singer who is also known as Flavour N ’ abania, is one artiste who doesn ’ t just sing about women, he has also been romantically linked with a couple of them . The ‘ Chop Life ’ singer in a recent interview with media personality , Ebuka Uchendu also confessed that he indeed loves beautiful women. Asked if he agrees with the impression that he is a womaniser , Flavour said, “ That ’ s people judging ( me) , you know . As long as you are in the public eye , you would get stuff like that. It was never planned , though I cannot deny that I love beautiful women. I am an African man , not a white man . I have taste too with women. I don ’ t just go with anything . ” The father of three noted that he had always known it would be difficult dealing with women because of his career. He said, “ I knew that with my job at some point, it was going to be very difficult with women. ” Flavour , however , noted that he is always happy whenever he sees his children. He said, “ I am very happy , when I look at the kids , and I believe that is all that matters. I am so happy because I never expected everything to happen this way . When you also look at the positives , you would see happiness in it . You have to take it . This is life and you have to live it . I swallow everything and get on with it . I make myself happy . ” Meanwhile, Flavour , who was romantically linked with a former Big Brother Africa winner , Dillish Matthews , stated that they never dated. See : Video : Dj Kaywise Ft Phyno – High Way
He added , “ She is a friend . We worked together and after that, we remained friends. There is no child involved ( between us) . There is no relationship . ” On why he has stuck with highlife music over the years, Flavour said, “ It is not about money . It is about being original . My style is highlife , RnB and contemporary jazz . I stuck with highlife because I want to be original . I want to be remembered for something. I am also adding culture to my sound . I want you to know I am coming from somewhere . When you hear my sound , you would think about the eastern part of Nigeria . That is my pride. That should not limit me or the way you see me. We need to celebrate all we have . People ask me if my kind of music is afrobeats . But , I tell them it is highlife . Why are there no awards with categories like ‘ Best Highlife Song ’ , and ‘ Best Fuji Song ’ . Why is everything about afrobeats ? We are limiting ourselves . Afrobeats is great but there is more to Africa than that. We don ’ t need other people to bring it out for us. Is it until ( a former US President , Barack Obama , or Beyonce tell us they love high - life music ? We can start it from here . ”